You have done the ceremony. You sat in the circle, walked the land, cried on the last morning and felt something in you genuinely move. On the drive home you were different, and you knew it. Then you were back inside your own front door, and it took about two days. The same chair. The same reach into the same cupboard. The same hour of the evening when you stop trying. The same voice on the phone, saying the thing you were certain you had finished saying. The hardest part isn't the return. It's how little say you seem to have in it, as though the change was real out there and can't survive in here. Nothing has gone wrong with you. Identity doesn't live only in the mind — it lives in relationship with a room, and it is very difficult to become someone new inside a space still organised around who you were.
The workshops, coaching or retreat did not fail. Your new identity does not have a home yet.
Lets change that.
60+ pages. Delivered as PDF
You have done the ceremony. You sat in the circle, walked the land, cried on the last morning and felt something in you genuinely move. On the drive home you were different, and you knew it. Then you were back inside your own front door, and it took about two days. The same chair. The same reach into the same cupboard. The same hour of the evening when you stop trying. The same voice on the phone, saying the thing you were certain you had finished saying. The hardest part isn't the return. It's how little say you seem to have in it, as though the change was real out there and can't survive in here. Nothing has gone wrong with you. Identity doesn't live only in the mind — it lives in relationship with a room, and it is very difficult to become someone new inside a space still organised around who you were.
The workshops, coaching or retreat did not fail. Your new identity does not have a home yet.
Lets change that.
60+ pages. Delivered as PDF
